My joking and satire have stirred an interesting debate.
Is it kosher to post our opinions regarding another person’s classified ad primarily concerning a high advertised price? If the answer is “no”, do the rules apply for ads elsewhere vs ads here? If there is consistency in one’s rules then whatever standard we apply here should be applied to all classified ads, correct? If the concern is that we will possibly “ruin” a sale, negatively influence a prospective buyer, or weaken a seller’s position then why wouldn’t we be concerned for all sellers; not just the ones who advertise here?
Following this line of reasoning should we also perhaps withhold praise and enthusiasm in stating that an asking price is “really low” because it potentially weakens the buyer’s position? ("Non buyers" are famous for letting this one fly off their lips.)
We’ve all watched both scenarios play out and I find it odd that the sellers seem to squawk much more than buyers when faced with this situation. Like everything in life there is probably some middle ground and none of us should be afraid to hear someone else’s opinion. If it’s true own it; if it’s not, ignore it. If it could go either way let it lie and be thankful that we live in a civilization that allows the freedom to express our opinions.
Sellers: Be realistic and rational. It's a little naïve to soak up compliments but not expect criticism. Fortunately this is a diversified community with varying degrees of expertise. It is a good thing when people are honest with their observations. The people who “shop” here for cars do their homework. Generally a LOT of homework. I can’t imagine that they let any one person impact or influence to such a degree that it taints their thinking substantially. Now if the masses start singing in chorus, one might be wise to heed their advice.
(I will offer one caveat: Personally I don't typically offer my opinion on value unless I think the asking price is off the chart. Over the last couple of years the market has been almost too unpredictable to even have a public opinion.)
So, my initial question stands.